Showing posts with label single life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label single life. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Why are relationships and love is so complicated?



" I'm in a complicated relationship with a guy I care deeply for." ....

A couple goes for a long term relationship, they staying together, work up the relationship together .. n suddenly the gf feel his bf has changed in a short period... & this conversation start...

GF says:
I feel u change a... anythg happen?

BF says:
i never change ... just because started to work, i feel stress thats why i need more entertainment, u have to accpet my life, in the meantime i couldn't give u any advises, all was depned on u, depend on how u think on me... anyway, i'll try to work out with u in this relationship...tell u frankly, i never think of our relationship problem in the meantime... i jz wan to full focus on my job & i need some time to settle down sth 1st.

GF says:
i duno whether i m ur gf or not .. u seems like keep many secret lately...

BF says:
in fact u are my gf...yet in the meantime can i treat u as my frn?

GF says:
What????!!!!

BF says:
i wanted to grab back the 1st time i met u that feeling, could please give us 2 more months to work out?? but i can tel you, there are no any GIRLS involve!!!!! i am selfish i wan back my single life..yet i dun to loose u...i very greedy.. all i also want, i want career, money, single life, including u........ tat's why i keep on turns to another point
GF says:10q 4 ur asnwer, dono y u change so sudden, i don know how to response u ...

BF says:
so what's ya decision?? do u still will work out with me in this relationship?? or u want to dump me?? or u think wait till i get mature stable and strong financial support only we workout...

GF says:
............................

BF says:
to make it fair and square between us...there is a way out means u got ur own life i got my own life, in fact we are still couple... of cz...we must focus on career more than relationship.. u can hang out with whatever frns u got...yet behave as long as we still have each other heart... dun out of the track...

GF says:
I dont get what you means, so selfish.. everything decided on you, you just ask me to follow back of you??

BF says:
the life still the same...as usual..jz i'll be more entertaining....u can come or i can go after u...anytime any day any moment....
GF says:tis is nt my mainpoint, my mainpoint is y jn u siad u wanna grab back the 1st feeling that we meet? what it mean??

BF says:
seriously, my feel towards u, is getting lesser dono is i too playful or what....my status is COMPLICATED bout u...

GF says:
What .. OMG, i tot i b'lif tere is real / true love, lovely r/ship, sincere, no flirty r/shp bt end up??? haiz...

BF says:
u were very good gf and wife.. among my ex u were the who treat me the best..i can swear...u noe what.. sometime good is good... feels is important also.. I dono how to express myself..

GF says:
k, i UN.

BF says:
i can tell u..like U this kind of gf or wife is rarely can find anymore... i m calling you to decide nt bcz u not good enuff, jz the feeling toward you still under complicated status.... so do you stil want to work out with me / break it off??

GF says:
Dono!!!!!!

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Flamin: well simply, you have to give and take. If one or both partners are not making the effort then things tend to go wrong

Spunts: they are not complicated once you start understanding both situation

Critical: Instead I believe it's important to develop love for everyone in your life... your family... your friends... your partner... your work friends... even people you don't know and your enemies...All of a sudden relationships are simple again ;)

Hottie: I dont think relationships are or have to be complicated. as long as their is comunication every thing is fine. if you have a problem talk about it, if you want something go for it. As for love you are either in love or not. you either feel happy or you are not. its a simple yes or no, not complicated at all.